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<blockquote data-quote="Beta" data-source="post: 739892" data-attributes="member: 22597"><p>Thank you all for your responses. It's 3:30 a.m. and I'm awake. I know he's manipulating. I also think he has deluded himself into believing at least some of what he says to us. Yesterday, I asked him if he would just at least come and stay for a week (we live in another state) and sit down and talk, that we want to see him. I think if he were here with us, he would be more stable and more able to reason with. Isolating himself in his room and thinking the same thoughts over and over only seems to reinforce the fictions he has convinced himself of. He refused. He hates us, he says.</p><p> The problem with the car is that we gave it to him in January; we have the title and it's on our insurance, which ends in December. We are concerned about liability once the insurance is up since we still own the car. Every so often, he gets a ticket, and we end up having to pay it, because we own the car, and if we don't, it will affect our credit. He refuses to give us an address to send the title to, and even if we were able to send it to him, there's no guarantee he would go and get a new title, etc. That's the reason we offered to pay for an inspection and registering the car--to get ourselves off the title and protect yourselves. So we're stuck at the moment.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Beta, post: 739892, member: 22597"] Thank you all for your responses. It's 3:30 a.m. and I'm awake. I know he's manipulating. I also think he has deluded himself into believing at least some of what he says to us. Yesterday, I asked him if he would just at least come and stay for a week (we live in another state) and sit down and talk, that we want to see him. I think if he were here with us, he would be more stable and more able to reason with. Isolating himself in his room and thinking the same thoughts over and over only seems to reinforce the fictions he has convinced himself of. He refused. He hates us, he says. The problem with the car is that we gave it to him in January; we have the title and it's on our insurance, which ends in December. We are concerned about liability once the insurance is up since we still own the car. Every so often, he gets a ticket, and we end up having to pay it, because we own the car, and if we don't, it will affect our credit. He refuses to give us an address to send the title to, and even if we were able to send it to him, there's no guarantee he would go and get a new title, etc. That's the reason we offered to pay for an inspection and registering the car--to get ourselves off the title and protect yourselves. So we're stuck at the moment. [/QUOTE]
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