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Another horrific night - ending in cops and ambulance
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 527067" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Oh gosh, I am so sorry. So much trauma. I wonder if it is time for a residential evaluation so that they can trial medications in a safe place?? If he is so good at school and for others, and so violent with you, has no remorse, I hope they have someone who understands Reactive Attachment Disorder working with you. He came to you after the age of secure bonding, development of the skills needed to trust and attach to other people happens. It depends how he was treated during that time or his perception of that anyway. (OR if he was moved from the people he was attaching to)......And of course his bio history is a clue for mental illness and/or autism. Sometimes my son seems not to have remorse but it turns out he really does not get the connections. Or other times he hides his feelings completely, doesn't want anyone to know if he is upset, sad, sorry, or even happy, excited, etc....</p><p></p><p>You need extra eyes and help in this situation. Was he adopted through foster care?? Sorry I forgot. I hope you can get some assistance to have him in a one to two month (at least) setting so they can get medications worked out, or at least figure out if medications can even help him. It can give you a much better idea about diagnosis too. </p><p></p><p>Will the intensive home therapy be there every time you are alone with him? I know how this feels and have to think through some of the same issues so I am not way saying these ideas are easy. We have not had that level of damage but I would never rule that out from happening at some point. So sending you huge hugs and support. I hope husband is on his way home.........(another reason to have him placed out of home right now, you two need to have time to make a plan together)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 527067, member: 12886"] Oh gosh, I am so sorry. So much trauma. I wonder if it is time for a residential evaluation so that they can trial medications in a safe place?? If he is so good at school and for others, and so violent with you, has no remorse, I hope they have someone who understands Reactive Attachment Disorder working with you. He came to you after the age of secure bonding, development of the skills needed to trust and attach to other people happens. It depends how he was treated during that time or his perception of that anyway. (OR if he was moved from the people he was attaching to)......And of course his bio history is a clue for mental illness and/or autism. Sometimes my son seems not to have remorse but it turns out he really does not get the connections. Or other times he hides his feelings completely, doesn't want anyone to know if he is upset, sad, sorry, or even happy, excited, etc.... You need extra eyes and help in this situation. Was he adopted through foster care?? Sorry I forgot. I hope you can get some assistance to have him in a one to two month (at least) setting so they can get medications worked out, or at least figure out if medications can even help him. It can give you a much better idea about diagnosis too. Will the intensive home therapy be there every time you are alone with him? I know how this feels and have to think through some of the same issues so I am not way saying these ideas are easy. We have not had that level of damage but I would never rule that out from happening at some point. So sending you huge hugs and support. I hope husband is on his way home.........(another reason to have him placed out of home right now, you two need to have time to make a plan together) [/QUOTE]
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