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Another lock / If he only had a brain/vent
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 128026" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Star....of course they can change but only if THEY want to...we cant make them or force them to want to make that change. Trust me, I have tried everything under the sun to try and make Cory want to change...Nope! I even had hope that wanting to be with his child day in and day out would be the difference. Nope. </p><p></p><p>I dont get it myself. I know I have the borderline personality diagnosis but at some point I figured out that I needed some self preservation skills. I didnt want to live my life in a cage. I dont like being locked up. Therefore I kept my idiotic activities to just this side of the line. I also didnt have that entitlement issue. I probably had the opposite problem...I always felt I was wrong. </p><p></p><p>Star...I dont think you can do much else. They have to hit bottom and want to make the changes for THEM. Dont risk your life savings on him. It wont make a difference. He will swear on a stack of bibles that he has changed but it wont last.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 128026, member: 1514"] Star....of course they can change but only if THEY want to...we cant make them or force them to want to make that change. Trust me, I have tried everything under the sun to try and make Cory want to change...Nope! I even had hope that wanting to be with his child day in and day out would be the difference. Nope. I dont get it myself. I know I have the borderline personality diagnosis but at some point I figured out that I needed some self preservation skills. I didnt want to live my life in a cage. I dont like being locked up. Therefore I kept my idiotic activities to just this side of the line. I also didnt have that entitlement issue. I probably had the opposite problem...I always felt I was wrong. Star...I dont think you can do much else. They have to hit bottom and want to make the changes for THEM. Dont risk your life savings on him. It wont make a difference. He will swear on a stack of bibles that he has changed but it wont last. [/QUOTE]
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