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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 351225" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>So A's mom was at the party? Why does A need to have her mommy at parties at her age? in my opinion that is a sign of a problem. The ONLY reason I would stay at a party where my 9yo was a guest was at homeschool group parties where adults were also invited, if the party was too far away for me to drive home AND there was no library or shopping center nearby, OR if MY child was a likely problem.</p><p></p><p>It sure seems like A may have problems where ever she goes to be with friends, if mommy has to stay there. Esp if Mommy has to jump in to "rescue" A several times in the course of a few hours. That would tell me that MY kid shouldn't hang out with those kids, if they treated my kid that badly. Maybe you should point that out to A's mommy. Just be SURE that you don't want to continue the friendship, LOL.</p><p></p><p>Do you really want to be friends with a mom who cannot see that her child is a troublemaker? Although A wanting to be one child's only friend sure seems like a sign that A has some sort of obsessional problem, maybe Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), maybe something else. I wonder if A's mom just doesn't know how to find help or to talk about the help her child needs. Again, if you say this be ready for A's mom to stop being friendly. A's mom may even treat you like a"frenemy" and say bad things to other moms about you and Duckie. Which would make me mad on your behalf.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry that Duckie was upset. And that this contributed to such a rough weekend. Neither you nor Duckie deserve this kind of treatment. If you know the other mom you might mention how A treats Duckie so badly and her mom seems to encourage her. I wonder what other kids say to their moms about how A behaves?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 351225, member: 1233"] So A's mom was at the party? Why does A need to have her mommy at parties at her age? in my opinion that is a sign of a problem. The ONLY reason I would stay at a party where my 9yo was a guest was at homeschool group parties where adults were also invited, if the party was too far away for me to drive home AND there was no library or shopping center nearby, OR if MY child was a likely problem. It sure seems like A may have problems where ever she goes to be with friends, if mommy has to stay there. Esp if Mommy has to jump in to "rescue" A several times in the course of a few hours. That would tell me that MY kid shouldn't hang out with those kids, if they treated my kid that badly. Maybe you should point that out to A's mommy. Just be SURE that you don't want to continue the friendship, LOL. Do you really want to be friends with a mom who cannot see that her child is a troublemaker? Although A wanting to be one child's only friend sure seems like a sign that A has some sort of obsessional problem, maybe Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), maybe something else. I wonder if A's mom just doesn't know how to find help or to talk about the help her child needs. Again, if you say this be ready for A's mom to stop being friendly. A's mom may even treat you like a"frenemy" and say bad things to other moms about you and Duckie. Which would make me mad on your behalf. I am sorry that Duckie was upset. And that this contributed to such a rough weekend. Neither you nor Duckie deserve this kind of treatment. If you know the other mom you might mention how A treats Duckie so badly and her mom seems to encourage her. I wonder what other kids say to their moms about how A behaves? [/QUOTE]
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