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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 428040" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>I do the same thing, too, and I've talked to my therapist about it a few times. The issues are different, and not to go into detail, but things within my family and close friends (things that happened in the past) have made me wonder the same thing. When you keep getting ugliness from people on such a consistent basis, you have to wonder what you're doing to cause it. She's been telling me that it's not me, it's them, but I'm having a hard time believing it. I must be doing something to cause - or allow - it. And it's not like I tolerate it when it happens. I don't know. </p><p></p><p>I don't think you are doing anything. I firmly believe that you are surrounded by crazy people. I do think you are too nice sometimes, but then again maybe I could be nicer. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 428040, member: 7083"] I do the same thing, too, and I've talked to my therapist about it a few times. The issues are different, and not to go into detail, but things within my family and close friends (things that happened in the past) have made me wonder the same thing. When you keep getting ugliness from people on such a consistent basis, you have to wonder what you're doing to cause it. She's been telling me that it's not me, it's them, but I'm having a hard time believing it. I must be doing something to cause - or allow - it. And it's not like I tolerate it when it happens. I don't know. I don't think you are doing anything. I firmly believe that you are surrounded by crazy people. I do think you are too nice sometimes, but then again maybe I could be nicer. :D [/QUOTE]
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