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Another saga in my life of victimization?
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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 157801" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Steely, working is never perfect. There are no perfect jobs, employers or employees. It really becomes about where you "fit". Jobs that you stick with are a good fit. </p><p>My easy child was upset that his employer didn't appreciate what a good worker he was compared to his peers. I asked if they gave him a paycheck. Yes was his answer. I told him that was the appreciation. He needed to get past the high school mentality that everyone had to stroke him when he did a good job. He needed to make it a point of self pride and self growth. Stop looking for approval from the boss. Now I'm not saying that is your situation. Lies and subterfuge is a strange way to work and such a negative energy that it's amazing that anything gets done. </p><p>What I'm saying is that you may need to reflect back to what you want and where you need to get it. If you feel ostracized in the work place or your work is not meeting the expectations of your boss you will have to do something about it. </p><p>If you have flaws(as we all do) can you get past them? Can you overcome stumbling blocks and make the job what you think it should be? Surely you are not the only one who has been picked out to be the recipient of untrue tales. Seek out those who are in the same boat and see if grouping together gives you each more strength and change the power within the work group. It may turn out that there are more of you then them. The liars and manipulators can be ostracized or shunned. Just do your job and find other ways to overcome the obstacles. </p><p></p><p>It would be good if you could work your perfect job. I can't save anyone since I can't save my own but helping children get services is a positive small help to a hurting child/family. Good luck if you pursue that dream.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 157801, member: 3"] Steely, working is never perfect. There are no perfect jobs, employers or employees. It really becomes about where you "fit". Jobs that you stick with are a good fit. My easy child was upset that his employer didn't appreciate what a good worker he was compared to his peers. I asked if they gave him a paycheck. Yes was his answer. I told him that was the appreciation. He needed to get past the high school mentality that everyone had to stroke him when he did a good job. He needed to make it a point of self pride and self growth. Stop looking for approval from the boss. Now I'm not saying that is your situation. Lies and subterfuge is a strange way to work and such a negative energy that it's amazing that anything gets done. What I'm saying is that you may need to reflect back to what you want and where you need to get it. If you feel ostracized in the work place or your work is not meeting the expectations of your boss you will have to do something about it. If you have flaws(as we all do) can you get past them? Can you overcome stumbling blocks and make the job what you think it should be? Surely you are not the only one who has been picked out to be the recipient of untrue tales. Seek out those who are in the same boat and see if grouping together gives you each more strength and change the power within the work group. It may turn out that there are more of you then them. The liars and manipulators can be ostracized or shunned. Just do your job and find other ways to overcome the obstacles. It would be good if you could work your perfect job. I can't save anyone since I can't save my own but helping children get services is a positive small help to a hurting child/family. Good luck if you pursue that dream. [/QUOTE]
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