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<blockquote data-quote="dreamer" data-source="post: 223544" data-attributes="member: 1697"><p>I could not be more sorry for kt and you. I wish I could say I was surprised, but....my difficult child was not ever ever violent, and experience proved to some of our school teachers and staff that if y dtr was permitted to follow her iep and go to her "safe place" she would only disassociate for a very brief time....but time and again, it was school and not my difficult child that got aggressive and or violent, and yes, my difficult child was suspended more often than not...no matter how many times our advocate, our ndoc, our psychiatrist all went into the school, and no matter what the due process hearing officer said school had to do. </p><p>It really did not matter what world my difficult child was living in, school continued to seem to enjoy maakeing it worse, so sad, cuz the very nature of the disorder is that the kids do not usually choose to exhibit these symptoms. and handleing it poorly can make it ever so much worse.....</p><p>I still get very sad alternateing with quite angry about the inhuman way our school handled my difficult child......If you could use suspension to cure a childs illness.whew, I wish! and calling it a suspension rather than a medical leave bothers me, too. THat makes a kid feel as if they are simply "bad" rather than ill. Hard to teach our kids compassion when they are handled with less than compassion by people in authority. My heart breaks for our kids. Life is soo hard for them. and then some people seem to just want so much to make it even harder. So often it does not really take any less work or effort to be kinder and handle things better. I swear our school seemed to enjoy triggering my difficult child. and escalating things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dreamer, post: 223544, member: 1697"] I could not be more sorry for kt and you. I wish I could say I was surprised, but....my difficult child was not ever ever violent, and experience proved to some of our school teachers and staff that if y dtr was permitted to follow her iep and go to her "safe place" she would only disassociate for a very brief time....but time and again, it was school and not my difficult child that got aggressive and or violent, and yes, my difficult child was suspended more often than not...no matter how many times our advocate, our ndoc, our psychiatrist all went into the school, and no matter what the due process hearing officer said school had to do. It really did not matter what world my difficult child was living in, school continued to seem to enjoy maakeing it worse, so sad, cuz the very nature of the disorder is that the kids do not usually choose to exhibit these symptoms. and handleing it poorly can make it ever so much worse..... I still get very sad alternateing with quite angry about the inhuman way our school handled my difficult child......If you could use suspension to cure a childs illness.whew, I wish! and calling it a suspension rather than a medical leave bothers me, too. THat makes a kid feel as if they are simply "bad" rather than ill. Hard to teach our kids compassion when they are handled with less than compassion by people in authority. My heart breaks for our kids. Life is soo hard for them. and then some people seem to just want so much to make it even harder. So often it does not really take any less work or effort to be kinder and handle things better. I swear our school seemed to enjoy triggering my difficult child. and escalating things. [/QUOTE]
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