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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 124315" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p></p><p>thank you so so much. i felt so deflated when i walked out of that bldg today.......and believe it or not i tend to be pretty bold......lol......yet this particular pyschologist i can't stand to be perfectly honest. </p><p></p><p>she made it seem as though i wasn't trying to "help" my kid. wow that blew me away if they only knew. i said to her i have 2 antipyshcotic medications left that i haven't tried i am not medicating her any further till i know what the deal is. she said your looking for a "magic" answer that is never going to come. that not having her in any type of therapy right now is so so wrong and i haven't had her in any etc. (which i have repeatedly) i said first of all she was doing fine until november, she had 3 good months after taking her off seroquel then suddenly she crashed again without warning. i said i took her to dr. new pychdoc as soon as school said uh oh she needs immediate intervention and then she was diagnosed with bipolar and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and anxiety disorder the medication they prescribed didn't work. so hence we took her off.......which is where we are now.</p><p></p><p>this is all new to me i must admit, yes i've been handing for 2 years yet we switched schools this year so a whole new staff to put in their place and iguess i'm just tired and i have to find my so to speak b*lls again (excuse the french).</p><p></p><p>i was so so so mad and upset when i came out of there at her suggestion that i wasn't doing anything for my kid. it took him seeing me and all of you know the horrible ups and downs in our own personal relationship (boyfriend and i ) thru all of this, it took him sitting me down being as blunt as could be spelling it out for me and reassuring me that i am ok that i will figure this out and tha ti was doing the right thing.</p><p></p><p>the school is amazing unless you have a "perfect" child right away their flipping out. then wait she commented on why do i not get her to school on time..........i said hmmm it certainly isn't because i want an extra cup of coffee in the a.m. i said this mornign she refused to get out of her pajamas it was a horror show boyfriend just says do you need my help i say no unless we're going to throw her in truck crying. so he doens't know what else to do he just comes and hugs me (his way of supporting me) i guess. he's had to remove me the past two nights from the floor in her room. i try to get her down yet it's very very hard then i give up i wind up falling asleep on her flr. then he wakes me gives me advil adn transfers me to our bed where difficult child comes in the middle of the night.</p><p></p><p>i guess because i've tried so very many different medications and doctor's that now i feel weakened and somewhat vulnerable so when these ridiculous school pyschologists turn around and say this stuff Occupational Therapist (OT) me i let it impact me. i truly shouldn't.</p><p></p><p>i;m going to try much harder to shut them off in my head. by the way my mom went at me again today also with the whole maybe it's her environment........ugh you'd think after years of this she'd just stop</p><p></p><p>jen <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 124315, member: 4514"] hi, thank you so so much. i felt so deflated when i walked out of that bldg today.......and believe it or not i tend to be pretty bold......lol......yet this particular pyschologist i can't stand to be perfectly honest. she made it seem as though i wasn't trying to "help" my kid. wow that blew me away if they only knew. i said to her i have 2 antipyshcotic medications left that i haven't tried i am not medicating her any further till i know what the deal is. she said your looking for a "magic" answer that is never going to come. that not having her in any type of therapy right now is so so wrong and i haven't had her in any etc. (which i have repeatedly) i said first of all she was doing fine until november, she had 3 good months after taking her off seroquel then suddenly she crashed again without warning. i said i took her to dr. new pychdoc as soon as school said uh oh she needs immediate intervention and then she was diagnosed with bipolar and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and anxiety disorder the medication they prescribed didn't work. so hence we took her off.......which is where we are now. this is all new to me i must admit, yes i've been handing for 2 years yet we switched schools this year so a whole new staff to put in their place and iguess i'm just tired and i have to find my so to speak b*lls again (excuse the french). i was so so so mad and upset when i came out of there at her suggestion that i wasn't doing anything for my kid. it took him seeing me and all of you know the horrible ups and downs in our own personal relationship (boyfriend and i ) thru all of this, it took him sitting me down being as blunt as could be spelling it out for me and reassuring me that i am ok that i will figure this out and tha ti was doing the right thing. the school is amazing unless you have a "perfect" child right away their flipping out. then wait she commented on why do i not get her to school on time..........i said hmmm it certainly isn't because i want an extra cup of coffee in the a.m. i said this mornign she refused to get out of her pajamas it was a horror show boyfriend just says do you need my help i say no unless we're going to throw her in truck crying. so he doens't know what else to do he just comes and hugs me (his way of supporting me) i guess. he's had to remove me the past two nights from the floor in her room. i try to get her down yet it's very very hard then i give up i wind up falling asleep on her flr. then he wakes me gives me advil adn transfers me to our bed where difficult child comes in the middle of the night. i guess because i've tried so very many different medications and doctor's that now i feel weakened and somewhat vulnerable so when these ridiculous school pyschologists turn around and say this stuff Occupational Therapist (OT) me i let it impact me. i truly shouldn't. i;m going to try much harder to shut them off in my head. by the way my mom went at me again today also with the whole maybe it's her environment........ugh you'd think after years of this she'd just stop jen :) [/QUOTE]
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