I know the Explosive Child is big around here. However, I'm look for more of an all inclusive program that's more step by step and visual for the the GTG (3 years old, working diagnosis of ADHD and ODD which a complete BS in my opinion. He probably has more of a mood disorder, in my opinion.). I love the Conscious Discipline approach of self-regulation but their kit is for the classroom. The Incredible Years training gets good reviews but the cost is over $1000. I think I've googled just about every combination I could think of but still can't find anything that's really useful for both parents and children. We do Parent Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT) but that can only get you so far. I've tried looking up classes through the social services website in the surrounding counties and the types of classes they offer are a joke. I attend a seminar at the Children's Hospital about Spirited Children and it was really a class about general parenting. I hope someone around here has a suggestion for home based behavior modification/self-regulation programs or even a therapy approach that I can inquire about with different psychiatric offices. *Thank you!