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Anybody seen my husband's frontal lobe anywhere?
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 491498" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Well...I hate to tell you that manipulation is one of the hallmarks of borderline...sigh. That is one of the reasons that people (therapists and psychs) say that I only have traits of it now. I dont manipulate well anymore. Not saying I cant or dont or wont on occasion. I can or will if I truly want to but I have learned some better coping skills along the way. I used to manipulate A LOT! BIG TIME...lol. Lots of times over sex only I was in the other position. "Oh honey, if you will give me $100 and watch the boys for me, I will do Y for you." </p><p></p><p>Now I just ask for what I want and dont offer..lmao.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 491498, member: 1514"] Well...I hate to tell you that manipulation is one of the hallmarks of borderline...sigh. That is one of the reasons that people (therapists and psychs) say that I only have traits of it now. I dont manipulate well anymore. Not saying I cant or dont or wont on occasion. I can or will if I truly want to but I have learned some better coping skills along the way. I used to manipulate A LOT! BIG TIME...lol. Lots of times over sex only I was in the other position. "Oh honey, if you will give me $100 and watch the boys for me, I will do Y for you." Now I just ask for what I want and dont offer..lmao. [/QUOTE]
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