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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 93161" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>WFEN...I know...I so know what you mean.</p><p></p><p>I lived for the time when my kids would be gone. I used to be so emphatic that the day they turned 18 I would never see them again. HA! Look at me now...lol. I have only managed to get one to fly the coop. </p><p></p><p>I used to say that I really didnt even like kids...mine included. I really couldnt wait for the day when I didnt have to be so involved in dealing with them. It hasnt happened.</p><p></p><p>The type of involvement has changed somewhat but I am still so completely involved with the two at home. I play taxi to the oldest. I have had to teach him ADL's so he is much more independent but if I dont remind him that the dishes need washing and that dishes includes the pots and pans, they dont get done. If I dont ask for something specific to get done around the house...it doesnt happen...and I am disabled and need all the help I can get.</p><p></p><p>With Cory...I have to remind him of everything. He cant be responsible to take his own medications, remember his own doctor appointments, remember his own court dates, anything. Of course, he gets annoyed with me over all this involvement in his life so we get into fights about it. I know too much about him he claims. Oh well. If he doesnt want me to know how many court dates he has, dont make me responsible for it then. He even argues with me over how many felonies he is facing and I have the living proof in my hands!</p><p></p><p>I dont know when I will get them all out of my house. Oldest will be out soonest I think. He is putting his aspie traits wholeheartedly into his new vocational program in HVAC and I think he may do well at it. I never pictured him obsessing over tools and heating and air units but hey...its a job! He is beginning to spout all the info about them the way he used to about nano robotics so I know he is obsessing...lol.</p><p></p><p>Cory will probably end up in jail or prison and that will be for the best I think. He needs to learn some hard facts of life that only time can teach him. Im almost looking forward to the 13th of this month to see what the judge does to him. Not sure exactly what the court date on the 13th is for...dont think its a trial exactly but he is consolidating all the court cases into one date...and that cant look good. When they see 1 felony forgery checks,3 uttering of forged checks, 1 felony obtaining property under false pretenses, 1 felony larceny well I dont know how that is going to look for him. That is 6 cases. I think there is also supposed to be a case about a house that was stripped of siding and sold but that case is mysteriously missing now. I wonder if it has been dropped. The DA was talking about pleading it down to a misdemeanor when he went last time because there wasnt any evidence on him...only the other guy and the other guy hasnt even been arrested. Hmmmm. We still dont know what the felony larceny is either...Im actually looking forward to finding out what that is! LMAO.</p><p></p><p>He thinks he is gonna just walk on all this. He is convinced that if Billy and I simply dont show up for court his forgery charges will be dismissed. Uhhhh NOT! For one thing, I wouldnt do that and for another, I would be arrested for failure to comply with a forgery affidavit! Sorry son, Im not doing that for you! Idiot.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 93161, member: 1514"] WFEN...I know...I so know what you mean. I lived for the time when my kids would be gone. I used to be so emphatic that the day they turned 18 I would never see them again. HA! Look at me now...lol. I have only managed to get one to fly the coop. I used to say that I really didnt even like kids...mine included. I really couldnt wait for the day when I didnt have to be so involved in dealing with them. It hasnt happened. The type of involvement has changed somewhat but I am still so completely involved with the two at home. I play taxi to the oldest. I have had to teach him ADL's so he is much more independent but if I dont remind him that the dishes need washing and that dishes includes the pots and pans, they dont get done. If I dont ask for something specific to get done around the house...it doesnt happen...and I am disabled and need all the help I can get. With Cory...I have to remind him of everything. He cant be responsible to take his own medications, remember his own doctor appointments, remember his own court dates, anything. Of course, he gets annoyed with me over all this involvement in his life so we get into fights about it. I know too much about him he claims. Oh well. If he doesnt want me to know how many court dates he has, dont make me responsible for it then. He even argues with me over how many felonies he is facing and I have the living proof in my hands! I dont know when I will get them all out of my house. Oldest will be out soonest I think. He is putting his aspie traits wholeheartedly into his new vocational program in HVAC and I think he may do well at it. I never pictured him obsessing over tools and heating and air units but hey...its a job! He is beginning to spout all the info about them the way he used to about nano robotics so I know he is obsessing...lol. Cory will probably end up in jail or prison and that will be for the best I think. He needs to learn some hard facts of life that only time can teach him. Im almost looking forward to the 13th of this month to see what the judge does to him. Not sure exactly what the court date on the 13th is for...dont think its a trial exactly but he is consolidating all the court cases into one date...and that cant look good. When they see 1 felony forgery checks,3 uttering of forged checks, 1 felony obtaining property under false pretenses, 1 felony larceny well I dont know how that is going to look for him. That is 6 cases. I think there is also supposed to be a case about a house that was stripped of siding and sold but that case is mysteriously missing now. I wonder if it has been dropped. The DA was talking about pleading it down to a misdemeanor when he went last time because there wasnt any evidence on him...only the other guy and the other guy hasnt even been arrested. Hmmmm. We still dont know what the felony larceny is either...Im actually looking forward to finding out what that is! LMAO. He thinks he is gonna just walk on all this. He is convinced that if Billy and I simply dont show up for court his forgery charges will be dismissed. Uhhhh NOT! For one thing, I wouldnt do that and for another, I would be arrested for failure to comply with a forgery affidavit! Sorry son, Im not doing that for you! Idiot. [/QUOTE]
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