We have a program where I live called The Sanctuary. No questions asked, it's respite for you and your child. They can stay for up to 21 days, go the school and therapy and they go on trips, (movies, mall, out to eat, etc.) You can have contact with your child. It is really just to give your family a break from all the madness. And it's FREE. I don't know if there is anything like that in your neck of the woods. It is in no way a permanent living situation, but when you can't take anymore you can at least have a short "vacation". You might want to see if there is anything like that in NJ. I'm in NY, it would be worth the drive. :smile:
