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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 735087" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>1st I will address the leotard. I think your friend was out of line calling your room mate names. There is nothing embarrassing or wrong with buying a kid a leotard or a swimsuit for that matter. Maybe there is something wrong with your friend's mind since they jumped to that conclusion. It isn't like he is going to ask her to change into it in front of him.</p><p>2nd the lying. Habitual lying if he is your kid, your responsibility is a problem. You said he is a 37 year old room mate. Why are you questioning him about his gift choice? It is none of your business. If he lies about something that directly affects you that's different..example.. you tell him he can't smoke in your house, he goes in his room, smokes, blowing out the window, you smell it and ask and he lies and says he didn't..that is your problem and he needs to leave. So in that you say he is a liar maybe he lies to you because what you are asking is none of your business and he doesn't want to just say "mind your own business" so he answers with what he things you want to hear. Maybe you need to re evaluate what you are asking him.</p><p>My son is a liar. I learned not to ask him things that at 21 really aren't my concern, I just want to know. I hated when he lied about things and made up stories to a direct question. I could tell you some of the convoluted tales he came up with and you would roll your eyes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 735087, member: 23103"] 1st I will address the leotard. I think your friend was out of line calling your room mate names. There is nothing embarrassing or wrong with buying a kid a leotard or a swimsuit for that matter. Maybe there is something wrong with your friend's mind since they jumped to that conclusion. It isn't like he is going to ask her to change into it in front of him. 2nd the lying. Habitual lying if he is your kid, your responsibility is a problem. You said he is a 37 year old room mate. Why are you questioning him about his gift choice? It is none of your business. If he lies about something that directly affects you that's different..example.. you tell him he can't smoke in your house, he goes in his room, smokes, blowing out the window, you smell it and ask and he lies and says he didn't..that is your problem and he needs to leave. So in that you say he is a liar maybe he lies to you because what you are asking is none of your business and he doesn't want to just say "mind your own business" so he answers with what he things you want to hear. Maybe you need to re evaluate what you are asking him. My son is a liar. I learned not to ask him things that at 21 really aren't my concern, I just want to know. I hated when he lied about things and made up stories to a direct question. I could tell you some of the convoluted tales he came up with and you would roll your eyes. [/QUOTE]
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