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ARGH!!!! easy child 2 and more lies! Just gotta vent
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 342887" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Shari, </p><p></p><p>What if.....you took all her underpants, and kept them locked up. Then when she was at your house the only underpants she could get was when she took a bath and exchanged a pair of dry ones for the clean ones you gave her? </p><p></p><p>As far as loosing objectivity...How about keeping a journal - dated, times of all the lies she tells you? At the end of one week you sit down and show her why you can't trust her? </p><p></p><p>I dunno. The therapist told us that every time Dude lied? We had to follow him, call him on it, take him to it....even follow him to the bathroom if he said "I have to pee." one of us had to get up and follow him there and say "We can't trust you, so we have to follow you." For three months we did this and after three months we FINALLY started to get on HIS nerves so badly he told the truth for the first time in his life about something. I thought I wasn't going to win that one....but we did and it was the beginning of Dude telling the truth on things. Granted he still lies about stuff, but....not about EVERYTHING. And when he would start to slip up...? OMG we had to go back to following him around again. VERY time consuming but less upsetting than this lying all the time business.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 342887, member: 4964"] Shari, What if.....you took all her underpants, and kept them locked up. Then when she was at your house the only underpants she could get was when she took a bath and exchanged a pair of dry ones for the clean ones you gave her? As far as loosing objectivity...How about keeping a journal - dated, times of all the lies she tells you? At the end of one week you sit down and show her why you can't trust her? I dunno. The therapist told us that every time Dude lied? We had to follow him, call him on it, take him to it....even follow him to the bathroom if he said "I have to pee." one of us had to get up and follow him there and say "We can't trust you, so we have to follow you." For three months we did this and after three months we FINALLY started to get on HIS nerves so badly he told the truth for the first time in his life about something. I thought I wasn't going to win that one....but we did and it was the beginning of Dude telling the truth on things. Granted he still lies about stuff, but....not about EVERYTHING. And when he would start to slip up...? OMG we had to go back to following him around again. VERY time consuming but less upsetting than this lying all the time business. [/QUOTE]
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