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ARGH!!!! I had ENOUGH!
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 467210" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Oh GOSH I had almost forgotten about how I felt years ago when this stuff happened.....(thanks???, just kidding) Anyway, it STILL happens (he is 14) BUT, I now am totally prepared for this one, absolutely for certain, can count on it, fact...</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">The FIRST few times we do ANYTHING it is a huge production. He will ruin it, or get angry, or too silly, or whatever. EVEN if it is a happy and fun thing. Even if it is as simple as learning a new card game. i dont know if that is or will be an issue for your difficult child but I can count on visual schedules being ripped to shreds (I always have laminated back ups....I got a laminator from his waiver because of the amount of stuff I have to try to protect, but it is still rip-able.) Once there is a routine, then it usually goes fine. Sometimes I have to go through a social story to train the new idea first. Including how to take care of the materials being used. Still, I get frustrated, but I am prepared now...I hope you dont need to do it as long as I have had to but in case. I just keep trying things until one or two works....takes lots of repetition for sure. My head throbs just thinking about it.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Sorry it didn't go well....I so get that. Wanna ring their litte necks sometimes, sigh.</span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 467210, member: 12886"] [SIZE=2]Oh GOSH I had almost forgotten about how I felt years ago when this stuff happened.....(thanks???, just kidding) Anyway, it STILL happens (he is 14) BUT, I now am totally prepared for this one, absolutely for certain, can count on it, fact... The FIRST few times we do ANYTHING it is a huge production. He will ruin it, or get angry, or too silly, or whatever. EVEN if it is a happy and fun thing. Even if it is as simple as learning a new card game. i dont know if that is or will be an issue for your difficult child but I can count on visual schedules being ripped to shreds (I always have laminated back ups....I got a laminator from his waiver because of the amount of stuff I have to try to protect, but it is still rip-able.) Once there is a routine, then it usually goes fine. Sometimes I have to go through a social story to train the new idea first. Including how to take care of the materials being used. Still, I get frustrated, but I am prepared now...I hope you dont need to do it as long as I have had to but in case. I just keep trying things until one or two works....takes lots of repetition for sure. My head throbs just thinking about it. Sorry it didn't go well....I so get that. Wanna ring their litte necks sometimes, sigh.[/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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