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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 367820" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Ironically, I sat on the floor last night and worked on a little project with Wee and truly enjoyed being able to spread out! lol (my chair was empty, but the floor seemed much easier, and was!)</p><p> </p><p>husband created the chair drama yesterday...normally its not a big deal. The big boys had friends that basically lived at our house when they were teens, and that's where the chair calling started. We just chose to let it, and sometimes participate-husband or I will call "Blue chair!" and most of the time, its a light-hearted game. Everybody knows the way its played. I reserve the right to pull rank and boot someone, but I don't do it often, and am always respected when I do. I was miffed at husband's reaction to cgfg in that, tho... we either allow "chair calling" or we don't, but it doesn't magically change because your fav kid is out her chair... </p><p> </p><p>And the laundry thing? I wash it. They have to put it away. Which is largely why its ALWAYS on the couch. </p><p> </p><p>Wee and I are going to my mom's tonight for a visit. husband and I are gonna have another chat before I pull out - I told him yesterday after a very minor but grumpy incident with Wee that he knew where the door was, and if he wanted to continue to be part of the problem, he could use it. Maybe I'm anal, but he's approaching the limit of what I will deal with. I was just thinking this morning that I didn't mind carrying the load when I was married to DEX...it was when he started getting mad at me over everything that wasn't done or wasn't perfect that I had enough...and gee...yesterday sounds a bit like that tune. This weekend had better have been a fluke...</p><p> </p><p>easy child 1 and difficult child 1 did their own laundry from about Wee's age on. I tried to make cgfg do hers, but she just doesn't, and grandma goes and buys her more clothes. so that's a losing proposition and more stress for me either dealing with brat-ville or trying to get her to do what she needs to without husband's help...its easier to wash her clothes. </p><p> </p><p>She'll grow up and marry someone just like the male influences in her life, and husband will hate him for not treating his princess better. And I will remind him where she learned it. Which is probably the biggest thing that bothers me...Wee is learning from him, also...and I despise that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 367820, member: 1848"] Ironically, I sat on the floor last night and worked on a little project with Wee and truly enjoyed being able to spread out! lol (my chair was empty, but the floor seemed much easier, and was!) husband created the chair drama yesterday...normally its not a big deal. The big boys had friends that basically lived at our house when they were teens, and that's where the chair calling started. We just chose to let it, and sometimes participate-husband or I will call "Blue chair!" and most of the time, its a light-hearted game. Everybody knows the way its played. I reserve the right to pull rank and boot someone, but I don't do it often, and am always respected when I do. I was miffed at husband's reaction to cgfg in that, tho... we either allow "chair calling" or we don't, but it doesn't magically change because your fav kid is out her chair... And the laundry thing? I wash it. They have to put it away. Which is largely why its ALWAYS on the couch. Wee and I are going to my mom's tonight for a visit. husband and I are gonna have another chat before I pull out - I told him yesterday after a very minor but grumpy incident with Wee that he knew where the door was, and if he wanted to continue to be part of the problem, he could use it. Maybe I'm anal, but he's approaching the limit of what I will deal with. I was just thinking this morning that I didn't mind carrying the load when I was married to DEX...it was when he started getting mad at me over everything that wasn't done or wasn't perfect that I had enough...and gee...yesterday sounds a bit like that tune. This weekend had better have been a fluke... easy child 1 and difficult child 1 did their own laundry from about Wee's age on. I tried to make cgfg do hers, but she just doesn't, and grandma goes and buys her more clothes. so that's a losing proposition and more stress for me either dealing with brat-ville or trying to get her to do what she needs to without husband's help...its easier to wash her clothes. She'll grow up and marry someone just like the male influences in her life, and husband will hate him for not treating his princess better. And I will remind him where she learned it. Which is probably the biggest thing that bothers me...Wee is learning from him, also...and I despise that. [/QUOTE]
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