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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 214332" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Jen, if you know that difficult child will have a very rough time at boyfriend's parents house, and you know that easy child will be bored silly, and you know that you'd prefer to go to your parents' place for thanksgiving, then I think that's where you need to be.</p><p></p><p>boyfriend should make his own decision for similar reasons. </p><p></p><p>I don't think it's wrong or sets a bad example for your children if you spend the holiday at different places. It all depends on HOW you do so. If you each stalk off in a snit to your respective parents' places, because you couldn't come to an agreement, then yes I agree, not such a good example for the children.</p><p></p><p>But, if you figure things out rationally, don't get mad at each other, and each make the decision that makes you happy, then that shows your children that a non-traditional setup can work if everyone behaves themselves and talks things through.</p><p></p><p>Hope this helps,</p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 214332, member: 3907"] Jen, if you know that difficult child will have a very rough time at boyfriend's parents house, and you know that easy child will be bored silly, and you know that you'd prefer to go to your parents' place for thanksgiving, then I think that's where you need to be. boyfriend should make his own decision for similar reasons. I don't think it's wrong or sets a bad example for your children if you spend the holiday at different places. It all depends on HOW you do so. If you each stalk off in a snit to your respective parents' places, because you couldn't come to an agreement, then yes I agree, not such a good example for the children. But, if you figure things out rationally, don't get mad at each other, and each make the decision that makes you happy, then that shows your children that a non-traditional setup can work if everyone behaves themselves and talks things through. Hope this helps, Trinity [/QUOTE]
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