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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 214364" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>thanks for the feedback. i appreciate it. it may seem like we're two kids arguing yet it's a hard issue. i am a traditional type of person, i enjoy family gatherings, holidays that sort of thing. it wasnt' horrible last year by any means at his dad's house it was just different and i'm so incredibly pliable i can have fun in a paper bag.</p><p> </p><p>yet difficult child isn't that way. i was afraid of catering to her needs yet again. yet you guys woke me out of my stump and stupor. there's no reason to make my kids miserable on the holiday at all. they will be miserablethere without his kids and just him and i and ppl they don't know, especially difficult child. she has come way way too far to allow one day to throw her backwards at this point.</p><p> </p><p>so, i just called him and left a message and said i'm giong to my mom's it is up to you at this pt what you want to do. i am not going to lie i think he's wrong. it's one thing if we had a set holiday tradition for years, etc and this one time we switched it up yet we are still trying Occupational Therapist (OT) find our "holidays" and moments and traditions so i think that he is being a bit selfish here.</p><p> </p><p>oh well. such is life. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 214364, member: 4514"] hi thanks for the feedback. i appreciate it. it may seem like we're two kids arguing yet it's a hard issue. i am a traditional type of person, i enjoy family gatherings, holidays that sort of thing. it wasnt' horrible last year by any means at his dad's house it was just different and i'm so incredibly pliable i can have fun in a paper bag. yet difficult child isn't that way. i was afraid of catering to her needs yet again. yet you guys woke me out of my stump and stupor. there's no reason to make my kids miserable on the holiday at all. they will be miserablethere without his kids and just him and i and ppl they don't know, especially difficult child. she has come way way too far to allow one day to throw her backwards at this point. so, i just called him and left a message and said i'm giong to my mom's it is up to you at this pt what you want to do. i am not going to lie i think he's wrong. it's one thing if we had a set holiday tradition for years, etc and this one time we switched it up yet we are still trying Occupational Therapist (OT) find our "holidays" and moments and traditions so i think that he is being a bit selfish here. oh well. such is life. :) [/QUOTE]
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