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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 669119" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Lil, what he is is young and immature. And he is over his head. All he has right now is his infantile and self-defeating attitude and thinking to fall back on. </p><p></p><p>I am very sorry that that happened with Jabber's Sis. Of course he is responsible and is making bad decision after bad decision. I just wonder if he is capable right now of doing differently.</p><p></p><p>He is not a bad person. He is learning how to live.</p><p></p><p>Maybe you want to think about supporting them to make a plan, exploring options.</p><p></p><p>I do not think that your make up is such to let him flail and flail, without yourself suffering unthinkably and intolerably. </p><p></p><p>I think differently than most. I do not think that helping them make a plan, sorting their options, is enabling. (I am a bit afraid to be confessing this....)</p><p></p><p>Copa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 669119, member: 18958"] Lil, what he is is young and immature. And he is over his head. All he has right now is his infantile and self-defeating attitude and thinking to fall back on. I am very sorry that that happened with Jabber's Sis. Of course he is responsible and is making bad decision after bad decision. I just wonder if he is capable right now of doing differently. He is not a bad person. He is learning how to live. Maybe you want to think about supporting them to make a plan, exploring options. I do not think that your make up is such to let him flail and flail, without yourself suffering unthinkably and intolerably. I think differently than most. I do not think that helping them make a plan, sorting their options, is enabling. (I am a bit afraid to be confessing this....) Copa [/QUOTE]
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