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<blockquote data-quote="mtic" data-source="post: 669174" data-attributes="member: 18623"><p>We used to try to come up with plans for my son. We'd sit down and discuss it...or at least his father and I would be talking. My son would nod his head and agree with everything. When that plan didn't work out, we'd repeat the process. I finally realized that with every plan hubby and I came up with my son seemed to try even harder to fail and seemed to get deeper and deeper into trouble. Right now he's couch surfing somewhere about 6 hours away from here. Haven't heard from him in about 3 weeks. I really have nothing to say to him anymore and I'm so much more at peace when I don't have contact. Wonder if that makes me a horrible person?</p><p></p><p>Anyway, Lil and Jabberwockey, seems your son needs to figure things out on his own too. I've seen you go above and beyond for him...you trying to help and him screwing up every time. They're very good at doing that, aren't they? The fact that he looked at CL to try to find a room proves they can get by. They really do need to figure it out on their own.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mtic, post: 669174, member: 18623"] We used to try to come up with plans for my son. We'd sit down and discuss it...or at least his father and I would be talking. My son would nod his head and agree with everything. When that plan didn't work out, we'd repeat the process. I finally realized that with every plan hubby and I came up with my son seemed to try even harder to fail and seemed to get deeper and deeper into trouble. Right now he's couch surfing somewhere about 6 hours away from here. Haven't heard from him in about 3 weeks. I really have nothing to say to him anymore and I'm so much more at peace when I don't have contact. Wonder if that makes me a horrible person? Anyway, Lil and Jabberwockey, seems your son needs to figure things out on his own too. I've seen you go above and beyond for him...you trying to help and him screwing up every time. They're very good at doing that, aren't they? The fact that he looked at CL to try to find a room proves they can get by. They really do need to figure it out on their own. [/QUOTE]
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