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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 42341" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Bless your heart. All this with Ant and now boyfriend springs a trip he planned 6 wks ago and didn't mention it to you before.</p><p></p><p>I am sure he took you by surprise, especially since he told you back in oct. he wouldn't repeat the same thing again ( he did though!)</p><p></p><p>I would question his reasoning for not telling you about it 6 wks ago when it was planned.</p><p></p><p>I know this is going to sound harsh but, I don't understand how grown children could dictate what a parent does and who that parent does it with.</p><p></p><p>If mom is not showing up, it makes no sense to me why dad's girlfriend shouldn't be there. </p><p></p><p>I know this has made you question this relationship. I too, would question exactly what my role is if I am not including in family gatherings.</p><p></p><p>That's just my UN-healthy take on it, I have been taken advantage of one too many times in girlfriend\boyfriend game.</p><p></p><p>I always want to put all the cards on the table, What would you do 2 yrs from now if this same thing happened? Is he capable of giving you what you need to feel secure in a relationship?</p><p></p><p>Everyone's needs are different. What is right and normal for some feels scarey to others. It all depends on what paths we have traveled. </p><p></p><p>You know what you need ~ I would do some soul`searching and look at the whole picture</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 42341, member: 2389"] Bless your heart. All this with Ant and now boyfriend springs a trip he planned 6 wks ago and didn't mention it to you before. I am sure he took you by surprise, especially since he told you back in oct. he wouldn't repeat the same thing again ( he did though!) I would question his reasoning for not telling you about it 6 wks ago when it was planned. I know this is going to sound harsh but, I don't understand how grown children could dictate what a parent does and who that parent does it with. If mom is not showing up, it makes no sense to me why dad's girlfriend shouldn't be there. I know this has made you question this relationship. I too, would question exactly what my role is if I am not including in family gatherings. That's just my UN-healthy take on it, I have been taken advantage of one too many times in girlfriend\boyfriend game. I always want to put all the cards on the table, What would you do 2 yrs from now if this same thing happened? Is he capable of giving you what you need to feel secure in a relationship? Everyone's needs are different. What is right and normal for some feels scarey to others. It all depends on what paths we have traveled. You know what you need ~ I would do some soul`searching and look at the whole picture [/QUOTE]
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