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<blockquote data-quote="judi" data-source="post: 42434" data-attributes="member: 148"><p>Janet - I think you have to do what is okay for you. If you can continue with boyfriend with the situation the way it is, then stay. If not, then leaving might be better in the long run. </p><p></p><p>husband and I have been together 29 years now. We love each other but we are also independent of each other: we each have activities that we do on our own. For instance, I'm on the volunteer fire dept. Hubby has no interest, so I do this on my own. He likes classical music, I gag at this. So, he does that alone. (Occas I go along, but usually not). </p><p></p><p>As to Anthony, my difficult child is like that too: grew up in a very nice place with both parents and older brother working very hard. He doesn't have a job and mooches off of whomever at the moment. He has a child he doesn't see much and doesn't support. Like so many of our kids, who knows what the future holds?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="judi, post: 42434, member: 148"] Janet - I think you have to do what is okay for you. If you can continue with boyfriend with the situation the way it is, then stay. If not, then leaving might be better in the long run. husband and I have been together 29 years now. We love each other but we are also independent of each other: we each have activities that we do on our own. For instance, I'm on the volunteer fire dept. Hubby has no interest, so I do this on my own. He likes classical music, I gag at this. So, he does that alone. (Occas I go along, but usually not). As to Anthony, my difficult child is like that too: grew up in a very nice place with both parents and older brother working very hard. He doesn't have a job and mooches off of whomever at the moment. He has a child he doesn't see much and doesn't support. Like so many of our kids, who knows what the future holds? [/QUOTE]
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