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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 42504" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>I think it is the secretness of cutting me out, it seems so sneaky for boyfriend to withhold info til the last few dys. he said he didnt tell me because it was planned so long ago, he forgot, and it was no big deal. I think he didnt tell me to have less days before the trip for me to have any input. still wrong. If I had known I could have planned something or other, maybe had Kaleb down.</p><p></p><p>Ant is not allowed to see Kaleb without me there as we agreed. If he tried to get him without me supervising the visit, I told him I would have the cops watch him and catch him drinking. </p><p></p><p>So,he hasnt seen him lately.</p><p></p><p>boyfriend's family is a solid nucleus. his sister is like a coparent to the girls, she has none of her own, never married. the girls do not want others included at all. only their aunt and her live in of 17 yrs and boyfriend. when I have been around them, they sit and play hours and hours of videos from the girl's childhoods. every visit. one night after 4 hours and I am not kidding....I was falling asleep and they got hurt that I could not keep my eyes open. they are stuck in the small world they made. </p><p></p><p>I do not care if I am with the girls. I just see more of an excluding pattern here in the past six months. it is like at first they had on "company behavior". now it has been they come here to visit monthly and they like to just see their mom or their dad and no one is allowed to go there now with the mom or dad. these girls are 24 and 28 and need to grow up. when their dad tried to go with a woman before me, he simply pointed her out to them in a church and they told him not to go with her. without even mtg her. so he dated her a bit but never let them meet one another. weird.</p><p></p><p></p><p>do I want this future? no. I am mulling it over. with him gone this weekend, I will think about it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 42504, member: 97"] I think it is the secretness of cutting me out, it seems so sneaky for boyfriend to withhold info til the last few dys. he said he didnt tell me because it was planned so long ago, he forgot, and it was no big deal. I think he didnt tell me to have less days before the trip for me to have any input. still wrong. If I had known I could have planned something or other, maybe had Kaleb down. Ant is not allowed to see Kaleb without me there as we agreed. If he tried to get him without me supervising the visit, I told him I would have the cops watch him and catch him drinking. So,he hasnt seen him lately. boyfriend's family is a solid nucleus. his sister is like a coparent to the girls, she has none of her own, never married. the girls do not want others included at all. only their aunt and her live in of 17 yrs and boyfriend. when I have been around them, they sit and play hours and hours of videos from the girl's childhoods. every visit. one night after 4 hours and I am not kidding....I was falling asleep and they got hurt that I could not keep my eyes open. they are stuck in the small world they made. I do not care if I am with the girls. I just see more of an excluding pattern here in the past six months. it is like at first they had on "company behavior". now it has been they come here to visit monthly and they like to just see their mom or their dad and no one is allowed to go there now with the mom or dad. these girls are 24 and 28 and need to grow up. when their dad tried to go with a woman before me, he simply pointed her out to them in a church and they told him not to go with her. without even mtg her. so he dated her a bit but never let them meet one another. weird. do I want this future? no. I am mulling it over. with him gone this weekend, I will think about it. [/QUOTE]
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