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<blockquote data-quote="kaykay" data-source="post: 288432" data-attributes="member: 7692"><p>Thank you for the replies. Just to clarify, my daughter handled the situation a long time ago, so thankfully she doesn't have contact with him. My concern is for the general public--we live in a town of about 25000 that is pretty connected through schools, sports, etc. I would hate to think of anything happening.</p><p></p><p>As far as the boys, most know him from growing up in the area. Most know his disability and are more than kind, including him in whatever they do. But he is a very big kid, and when he gets out of control, I'm not sure who could control him.</p><p></p><p>Susiestar, you are so right. I am hoping that the child gets the care he needs and the community is hurt by him. I want the best for this boy, and I am worried that his parents are not able to see the forest through the trees and get him what he needs. It is very overwhelming for them.</p><p></p><p>MidwestMom--olive branch received and thank you. Child isn't adopted, nor was there drinking, but their parenting is not what I think is appropriate--just an opinion and I did teach parenting classes (not that that means anything). There is a lot of yelling, disrespect, anger. This is the way they always parented. I don't see myself renewing this relationship, but I do want everyone to be safe. </p><p></p><p>flutterby-- the parents do have their heads in the sand. I know they are overwhelmed and at a loss, don't want to join support groups--even when the kids were little, have alienated those that did offer support. I can't walk in their shoes to know everything, but I must protect my friends and family. I'm afraid I'm being too sensitive about stepping on toes--even though I don't believe this is the time to worry about that! Do you live in a midwest state near L. Michigan?<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /> And thanks for your support.</p><p></p><p>Is CPS not the route to go? I have very mixed feelings about them. Saw too much when I was in the working world and the system didn't always do what it was supposed to. Should I contact his Special Education. teacher and ask for direction. I know he can't give me info.</p><p></p><p>Aaaaahhhh. I'm rambling. Thanks again for the help. I'll continue to ponder this dilemma.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kaykay, post: 288432, member: 7692"] Thank you for the replies. Just to clarify, my daughter handled the situation a long time ago, so thankfully she doesn't have contact with him. My concern is for the general public--we live in a town of about 25000 that is pretty connected through schools, sports, etc. I would hate to think of anything happening. As far as the boys, most know him from growing up in the area. Most know his disability and are more than kind, including him in whatever they do. But he is a very big kid, and when he gets out of control, I'm not sure who could control him. Susiestar, you are so right. I am hoping that the child gets the care he needs and the community is hurt by him. I want the best for this boy, and I am worried that his parents are not able to see the forest through the trees and get him what he needs. It is very overwhelming for them. MidwestMom--olive branch received and thank you. Child isn't adopted, nor was there drinking, but their parenting is not what I think is appropriate--just an opinion and I did teach parenting classes (not that that means anything). There is a lot of yelling, disrespect, anger. This is the way they always parented. I don't see myself renewing this relationship, but I do want everyone to be safe. flutterby-- the parents do have their heads in the sand. I know they are overwhelmed and at a loss, don't want to join support groups--even when the kids were little, have alienated those that did offer support. I can't walk in their shoes to know everything, but I must protect my friends and family. I'm afraid I'm being too sensitive about stepping on toes--even though I don't believe this is the time to worry about that! Do you live in a midwest state near L. Michigan?:winking: And thanks for your support. Is CPS not the route to go? I have very mixed feelings about them. Saw too much when I was in the working world and the system didn't always do what it was supposed to. Should I contact his Special Education. teacher and ask for direction. I know he can't give me info. Aaaaahhhh. I'm rambling. Thanks again for the help. I'll continue to ponder this dilemma. [/QUOTE]
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