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Aspergers vs ODD ...and Slapping Self in Face
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 205669" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Terry, I love your post. It says what I tried to say, but probably didn't get across. Shows what a smart lady you are <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>Children are conservative, and we can't change that. They prefer parents who follow the rules and it can scare them if they don't. I actually think both of my kids would be freaked out by a nude male walking around. My daughter is 12 and it would horrify her. She's not an Aspie, but I know she'd be begging husband to stop...and she wouldn't be bringing any of her friends home, so I wouldnt have a clue who she was hanging with. Aspie son still covers his face when he sees sex in movies (and he's 15). I reiterate that in the US, this a CPS sexual abuse case waiting to happen even if there is no sexual abuse. I was told that forcing a child to watch an XXX rated movie is considered Sexual Abuse--you are on unsteady grounds here. Frankly husband sounds a bit too stubborn in an "it's all about me" way in my opinion. It's not. He either has two children or he has married a woman with kids. He needs to practice his nudism away from the children and I agree NOT to bring the kids to the beach with him. They have plenty of time to decide whether or not to be nudists when they are eighteen. You can't have daughter slapping herself--in Aspie language that means "I hate it, but I don't know how to express it so I'll take it out of myself." It's not good. And I also agree that kids were made to rebel. You have a nudist in the house, you are likely to have the most anal, modest child as a young adult (not a BAD thing in my opinion). If you raise the chid with too much strictness, you can almost bet the farm that the child will be a hellion and break every rule you put into place. That's why the Preacher's Son has such a bad reputation <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p>Terry, again, wonderful way of explaining. You rock. But I already knew that <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 205669, member: 1550"] Terry, I love your post. It says what I tried to say, but probably didn't get across. Shows what a smart lady you are :) Children are conservative, and we can't change that. They prefer parents who follow the rules and it can scare them if they don't. I actually think both of my kids would be freaked out by a nude male walking around. My daughter is 12 and it would horrify her. She's not an Aspie, but I know she'd be begging husband to stop...and she wouldn't be bringing any of her friends home, so I wouldnt have a clue who she was hanging with. Aspie son still covers his face when he sees sex in movies (and he's 15). I reiterate that in the US, this a CPS sexual abuse case waiting to happen even if there is no sexual abuse. I was told that forcing a child to watch an XXX rated movie is considered Sexual Abuse--you are on unsteady grounds here. Frankly husband sounds a bit too stubborn in an "it's all about me" way in my opinion. It's not. He either has two children or he has married a woman with kids. He needs to practice his nudism away from the children and I agree NOT to bring the kids to the beach with him. They have plenty of time to decide whether or not to be nudists when they are eighteen. You can't have daughter slapping herself--in Aspie language that means "I hate it, but I don't know how to express it so I'll take it out of myself." It's not good. And I also agree that kids were made to rebel. You have a nudist in the house, you are likely to have the most anal, modest child as a young adult (not a BAD thing in my opinion). If you raise the chid with too much strictness, you can almost bet the farm that the child will be a hellion and break every rule you put into place. That's why the Preacher's Son has such a bad reputation :) Terry, again, wonderful way of explaining. You rock. But I already knew that :) [/QUOTE]
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