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Aspergers vs ODD ...and Slapping Self in Face
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 205866" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Can you show him this thread? I can sympathise with him feeling that not only does he not want to feel restricted, he doesn't want the children to grow up feeling unnecessarily inhibited either, but we can't always have what we want in this, because human nature is far more complex and we have to also deal with the many people who make the rules, NOT having been brought up as he has.</p><p></p><p>Also, I think the main lead here, especially from husband's viewpoint of freedom from inhibition, has to be Eris and how she is reacting. If she reacted like this then despite husband's openness, she IS inhibited by it and the very opennesss is causing her distress.</p><p></p><p>Her extreme reaction may be an Aspie thing - they do pick up 'rules' very quickly and not just from home - or it may simply be the usual reaction of a kid starting to swing the pendulum back towards conservatism.</p><p></p><p>I suspect my husband will want to comment on this also, if he gets a moment today at work. Maybe from one male (if former) nudist to another, there could be something of value for your husband?</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 205866, member: 1991"] Can you show him this thread? I can sympathise with him feeling that not only does he not want to feel restricted, he doesn't want the children to grow up feeling unnecessarily inhibited either, but we can't always have what we want in this, because human nature is far more complex and we have to also deal with the many people who make the rules, NOT having been brought up as he has. Also, I think the main lead here, especially from husband's viewpoint of freedom from inhibition, has to be Eris and how she is reacting. If she reacted like this then despite husband's openness, she IS inhibited by it and the very opennesss is causing her distress. Her extreme reaction may be an Aspie thing - they do pick up 'rules' very quickly and not just from home - or it may simply be the usual reaction of a kid starting to swing the pendulum back towards conservatism. I suspect my husband will want to comment on this also, if he gets a moment today at work. Maybe from one male (if former) nudist to another, there could be something of value for your husband? Marg [/QUOTE]
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