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At a loss - Disappointed by Child psychiatric appointment.
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 137859" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Until you have some idea what is going on, this doctor problem will not be able to help. Hyper behavior can be caused by so many things.</p><p> </p><p>What you are doing with your daughter's therapist is NOT family counselling, nor is it couples counselling. The entire dynamic would be addressed in a systematic way in family therapy. The "I won, you lost" between you and husband would be addressed in couples therapy. I strongly urge you to seek out both. </p><p> </p><p>Get the neuropsychologist or multidisc. testing. It will help you greatly.</p><p> </p><p>The sleep-deprived EEG is crucial, in my opinion. Much of the behaviors could be seizures of some kind - you would be amazed at how many behaviors can be caused/altered by seizures.</p><p> </p><p>Go to the board FAQ forum. Do a Parent Report. Include pictures of the damage she has done to things, of every/any thing you can think of. </p><p> </p><p>Take VIDEO of your child's behavior. ESP when raging/tantrumming. It can be very helpful.</p><p> </p><p>But, until you and husband are on the same page, you are NOT going to get very far. His refusal to discipline her is telling her she is not doing anything wrong. It is a great disservice to her. Maybe if you let HIM deal with ALL the things she does - school calling, everything, then he will see. EVen let him pick up after her. Or get her to pick up.</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry it is so tough on you.</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 137859, member: 1233"] Until you have some idea what is going on, this doctor problem will not be able to help. Hyper behavior can be caused by so many things. What you are doing with your daughter's therapist is NOT family counselling, nor is it couples counselling. The entire dynamic would be addressed in a systematic way in family therapy. The "I won, you lost" between you and husband would be addressed in couples therapy. I strongly urge you to seek out both. Get the neuropsychologist or multidisc. testing. It will help you greatly. The sleep-deprived EEG is crucial, in my opinion. Much of the behaviors could be seizures of some kind - you would be amazed at how many behaviors can be caused/altered by seizures. Go to the board FAQ forum. Do a Parent Report. Include pictures of the damage she has done to things, of every/any thing you can think of. Take VIDEO of your child's behavior. ESP when raging/tantrumming. It can be very helpful. But, until you and husband are on the same page, you are NOT going to get very far. His refusal to discipline her is telling her she is not doing anything wrong. It is a great disservice to her. Maybe if you let HIM deal with ALL the things she does - school calling, everything, then he will see. EVen let him pick up after her. Or get her to pick up. I am sorry it is so tough on you. Susie [/QUOTE]
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