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<blockquote data-quote="scent of cedar" data-source="post: 612598" data-attributes="member: 1721"><p>Janet, you have been through so much. It is the hardest time, when we watch everything we've believed could be possible deflate. Everything seems so dark and brown for such a long time.Do you think these feelings are part of having been enmeshed with our self-destructive child? We believe so hard for them that we lose ourselves in the process. When they fall again anyway, they drag a part of us with them, I think.</p><p></p><p>I would not like you to have anything terminal, Janet. You have helped me more times than you know. Just knowing you are here, reading and posting when you can helps me. I remember when you were so funny and so strong and just never did give a rip what anyone thought.</p><p></p><p>And that gave me strength, too.</p><p></p><p>It sounds like you feel that you don't matter, even to yourself, Dammit.</p><p></p><p>You matter, very much, to us.</p><p></p><p>This will pass.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scent of cedar, post: 612598, member: 1721"] Janet, you have been through so much. It is the hardest time, when we watch everything we've believed could be possible deflate. Everything seems so dark and brown for such a long time.Do you think these feelings are part of having been enmeshed with our self-destructive child? We believe so hard for them that we lose ourselves in the process. When they fall again anyway, they drag a part of us with them, I think. I would not like you to have anything terminal, Janet. You have helped me more times than you know. Just knowing you are here, reading and posting when you can helps me. I remember when you were so funny and so strong and just never did give a rip what anyone thought. And that gave me strength, too. It sounds like you feel that you don't matter, even to yourself, Dammit. You matter, very much, to us. This will pass. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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