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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 612755" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>you all are amazingly wise, kind and generous. I'm shocked at how what each of you says resonates...usually when I try to talk to people about my son, they make suggestions or ask questions that just place us in different galaxies. I don't mind, I get it, but it sure as hell isn't helpful. YOu, group of strangers, are helpful.</p><p>He called me this evening from a local hospital. I have found that usually when he starts to feel stressed, realizes he really is in over his head, and feels alone, he starts going to emergency rooms...falls, overdoses, suidide attempts, "seizures" never witnessed...you name it. Tonight he called to tell me he is in an emergency room with a thigh abscess (but I never shoot up there, mom) and a seizure. He tells me he is in a good place ...I asked him what that means, and he said "well I am not in jail"...ps there is a bench warrant out for him , so that is temporary. His thrust lately has been that I need to accept his girlfriend...got a long talk about how he loves her and she him...I told him I was happy for him but that it really isn't about her, it is him that I can't accommodate and don't want to see till he is on medications and seeing a therapist. He persisted with the girlfriend a bit (I can guarantee she'll be gone by 2014--27 to his 19, on the street, from another state checking out a different venue), then said he wouldn't be on his medications any time soon, is going to new york for new years then new orleans or miami (this are frequent and recurring plans that don't materialize). He said that my version of doing well and his don't match...I said as long as he is begging in front of mcdonalds he is not doing well. and that is all. cried when I hung up. He didn't feel the love and support...I doubt he'll call for a while, and I have no way to reach him. He has no phone. I do check facebook, but he doesn't often post. If I leave him a message there he usually responds eventually.</p><p>thats it.. just describing my day, my life. My transition.</p><p>Thank you all again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 612755, member: 17269"] you all are amazingly wise, kind and generous. I'm shocked at how what each of you says resonates...usually when I try to talk to people about my son, they make suggestions or ask questions that just place us in different galaxies. I don't mind, I get it, but it sure as hell isn't helpful. YOu, group of strangers, are helpful. He called me this evening from a local hospital. I have found that usually when he starts to feel stressed, realizes he really is in over his head, and feels alone, he starts going to emergency rooms...falls, overdoses, suidide attempts, "seizures" never witnessed...you name it. Tonight he called to tell me he is in an emergency room with a thigh abscess (but I never shoot up there, mom) and a seizure. He tells me he is in a good place ...I asked him what that means, and he said "well I am not in jail"...ps there is a bench warrant out for him , so that is temporary. His thrust lately has been that I need to accept his girlfriend...got a long talk about how he loves her and she him...I told him I was happy for him but that it really isn't about her, it is him that I can't accommodate and don't want to see till he is on medications and seeing a therapist. He persisted with the girlfriend a bit (I can guarantee she'll be gone by 2014--27 to his 19, on the street, from another state checking out a different venue), then said he wouldn't be on his medications any time soon, is going to new york for new years then new orleans or miami (this are frequent and recurring plans that don't materialize). He said that my version of doing well and his don't match...I said as long as he is begging in front of mcdonalds he is not doing well. and that is all. cried when I hung up. He didn't feel the love and support...I doubt he'll call for a while, and I have no way to reach him. He has no phone. I do check facebook, but he doesn't often post. If I leave him a message there he usually responds eventually. thats it.. just describing my day, my life. My transition. Thank you all again. [/QUOTE]
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