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<blockquote data-quote="Hopeful parent" data-source="post: 758278" data-attributes="member: 21585"><p>Thankyou for posting in reply to my comments above. I actually did write a large, very large post but then decided to delete it as I was just rambling. I Have had a very hard day to day. I have been abused by the other grandmother of the grandchild of my problem son and his girlfriend. This really upset me as normally in the past we have been able to discuss the problems as both our children are not going so good. I only contacted her to discuss the little boy (our grandchild) as I am thinking that maybe it is time to ring the welfare, but I wanted to speak to her first as I wanted her opinion as she still sees them and would know more then I would if the little boy is being looked after. But she was defensive before I even got to speak to her and abused me then hung up. A lot has happened lately with these two irresponsible drug taking adults which has made me wonder about the little grandson that I don't get to see. I have been asked by my sons parole officer if the little boy is safe and this is why I rang her, as I don't know the answer to that and I'm sure she does. The little boy's parents drug taking has gotten worse and there has been problems where my son got arrested. I also have had my suspicions that my son is the one being abused by his partner not the other way around. He lies to protect her. She stabbed him in the head, he had a 6cm gash in his head, but he told the hospital that he fell over in the yard and cut his head on a dog kennel. But this morning after another incident with her he told me the truth that she did it. It is all such a long story and I am starting to ramble again as I am tired and can't think straight. But I think that I do need to do this as I have not much support, so I am going to bed and will come back to this site tomorrow and see if I can explain better. I have though until recently stopped giving them money for over 12 months, but still every week get abused on the phone for saying no. I was beginning to wonder why he would keep ringing me when I always say no and I sometimes wonder if it is his way of reaching out to us just so he can keep that contact with us. Thank you for your support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopeful parent, post: 758278, member: 21585"] Thankyou for posting in reply to my comments above. I actually did write a large, very large post but then decided to delete it as I was just rambling. I Have had a very hard day to day. I have been abused by the other grandmother of the grandchild of my problem son and his girlfriend. This really upset me as normally in the past we have been able to discuss the problems as both our children are not going so good. I only contacted her to discuss the little boy (our grandchild) as I am thinking that maybe it is time to ring the welfare, but I wanted to speak to her first as I wanted her opinion as she still sees them and would know more then I would if the little boy is being looked after. But she was defensive before I even got to speak to her and abused me then hung up. A lot has happened lately with these two irresponsible drug taking adults which has made me wonder about the little grandson that I don't get to see. I have been asked by my sons parole officer if the little boy is safe and this is why I rang her, as I don't know the answer to that and I'm sure she does. The little boy's parents drug taking has gotten worse and there has been problems where my son got arrested. I also have had my suspicions that my son is the one being abused by his partner not the other way around. He lies to protect her. She stabbed him in the head, he had a 6cm gash in his head, but he told the hospital that he fell over in the yard and cut his head on a dog kennel. But this morning after another incident with her he told me the truth that she did it. It is all such a long story and I am starting to ramble again as I am tired and can't think straight. But I think that I do need to do this as I have not much support, so I am going to bed and will come back to this site tomorrow and see if I can explain better. I have though until recently stopped giving them money for over 12 months, but still every week get abused on the phone for saying no. I was beginning to wonder why he would keep ringing me when I always say no and I sometimes wonder if it is his way of reaching out to us just so he can keep that contact with us. Thank you for your support. [/QUOTE]
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