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<blockquote data-quote="Hopeful parent" data-source="post: 758376" data-attributes="member: 21585"><p>My son has rang again a few nights ago and told us his girlfriend went berserk again. He wanted us to come and get him and my grandson. She accused him of ringing the welfare. I would say her mother has told her about my phone call to her mother to discuss the safety of the little boy, which I don't think is very productive considering what is going on with them. My son said he would go to a refuge if they would take men with babies. We couldn't go and get him, we don't live close by and it was late at night. So I let it go and when I got no phone call The next day I figured the drama was over for them (for the moment anyway). Anyway tonight (few nights later) my son rings me. We start off with a chat about trivial things, I talk to my grandson, etc etc, no malice, no mention of the other day. Then he asks me for money, as they are apparently starving again, (even though they got a thousand dollars loan, a few days ago from the dole office (sorry I still call it the dole). I say very politely "sorry but I can't." So the tune changes, quote his words "are you kidding, you're not going to lend me the money. You think you are special don't you, you F........g M..Le. Then he begins to rant. I hang up. Block his number. Not before 10 calls which I ignored. My husband who was down in the back workshop comes up to the house, he also got phone calls. I can't even repeat what he said to him. So that's it I'm done. I am going to not answer his calls anymore or speak to anyone in his girlfriends family ever again. It is just all so crazy. When he was home with us for the month I saw in him the loving son that he was. And now this. if I don't cut this from my life I am going to go crazy as well. I think I am going to make it permanent. No conversation, no more sending Christmas presents or birthdays. A complete cut, otherwise it is going to kill me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopeful parent, post: 758376, member: 21585"] My son has rang again a few nights ago and told us his girlfriend went berserk again. He wanted us to come and get him and my grandson. She accused him of ringing the welfare. I would say her mother has told her about my phone call to her mother to discuss the safety of the little boy, which I don't think is very productive considering what is going on with them. My son said he would go to a refuge if they would take men with babies. We couldn't go and get him, we don't live close by and it was late at night. So I let it go and when I got no phone call The next day I figured the drama was over for them (for the moment anyway). Anyway tonight (few nights later) my son rings me. We start off with a chat about trivial things, I talk to my grandson, etc etc, no malice, no mention of the other day. Then he asks me for money, as they are apparently starving again, (even though they got a thousand dollars loan, a few days ago from the dole office (sorry I still call it the dole). I say very politely "sorry but I can't." So the tune changes, quote his words "are you kidding, you're not going to lend me the money. You think you are special don't you, you F........g M..Le. Then he begins to rant. I hang up. Block his number. Not before 10 calls which I ignored. My husband who was down in the back workshop comes up to the house, he also got phone calls. I can't even repeat what he said to him. So that's it I'm done. I am going to not answer his calls anymore or speak to anyone in his girlfriends family ever again. It is just all so crazy. When he was home with us for the month I saw in him the loving son that he was. And now this. if I don't cut this from my life I am going to go crazy as well. I think I am going to make it permanent. No conversation, no more sending Christmas presents or birthdays. A complete cut, otherwise it is going to kill me. [/QUOTE]
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