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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 364111" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thanks for asking- although I preached to you a little, my mom called last night to ask about difficult child. I had only had 2 hours sleep the night before due to stress over everything and court so I'm not sure what all I said to her- I only remember letting her know as sublty as I could, without trying to instigate an arguement, that I didn't see how she couldn't see that it was her and my bro's fault that difficult child got so caught in the legal system so deeply and that my financial situation was in part due to having to fight all the koi they stirred up. She said she did see it. No apology, no offer to help, no remorse, so who knows- it sure appears like she just doesn't care. But that's the way she's always been- she only cares about what she wants and has NEVER seemed to feel a single drop of guilt no matter what the situation- even when she'd hurt my step-father's feelings or anything else. She's just that way. I don't know if it's due to narcisism (sp), if she's antisocial, or what. I gave up trying to figure it out. LOL! But what gets to me is when she then will turn around and claim to love difficult child so much that she'll just have to get others involved if I don't tell her what she wants to know or whatever because she has grandparent's rights. Pulleeeeaaaaassseee!!!!!!</p><p></p><p>So, that's the story of my life since yesterday! LOL!! </p><p></p><p>So I hope you understand, when I tell you things to try to help you get past this issue with your family, I'm sitting here reminding myself of the same things- which is why they come to mind to also tell you when I read your posts. Hang in there! You're on the right track I think.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 364111, member: 3699"] Thanks for asking- although I preached to you a little, my mom called last night to ask about difficult child. I had only had 2 hours sleep the night before due to stress over everything and court so I'm not sure what all I said to her- I only remember letting her know as sublty as I could, without trying to instigate an arguement, that I didn't see how she couldn't see that it was her and my bro's fault that difficult child got so caught in the legal system so deeply and that my financial situation was in part due to having to fight all the koi they stirred up. She said she did see it. No apology, no offer to help, no remorse, so who knows- it sure appears like she just doesn't care. But that's the way she's always been- she only cares about what she wants and has NEVER seemed to feel a single drop of guilt no matter what the situation- even when she'd hurt my step-father's feelings or anything else. She's just that way. I don't know if it's due to narcisism (sp), if she's antisocial, or what. I gave up trying to figure it out. LOL! But what gets to me is when she then will turn around and claim to love difficult child so much that she'll just have to get others involved if I don't tell her what she wants to know or whatever because she has grandparent's rights. Pulleeeeaaaaassseee!!!!!! So, that's the story of my life since yesterday! LOL!! So I hope you understand, when I tell you things to try to help you get past this issue with your family, I'm sitting here reminding myself of the same things- which is why they come to mind to also tell you when I read your posts. Hang in there! You're on the right track I think. [/QUOTE]
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