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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 740109" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>They want to preserve families here too but what is a family. DNA? Nonsense.</p><p></p><p>A toddler was removed and put into care. He wore a body cast. His drug addicted mother had smashed him into a wall and broken almost every bone in his two year old body. He went to a loving family who nursed him to health and he called them Mom and Dad. They wanted to adopt him alhough he had many challenges due to the birthmothers abuse and substance abuse during pregnancy.</p><p></p><p>The boy was four now, comfortable and safe and loved. Family was told they couldnt adopt him because his birthmoher was rehabilitated now. So he went back.</p><p></p><p>A few months later he was back in care. Birthmother decided she didnt want him.</p><p></p><p>So did they give him back to the family who had cared for and loved him? No. He went to a new family who had never met him.</p><p></p><p>By now he was becoming a big behavior problem from all that had happened to him and to being swapped family to family. The new family kept him a year then said they didnt want him anymore.</p><p></p><p>Only then did he go back to his real family, the one who had nursed him and had wanted to adopt him. He was a mess by now but I heard they adopted him.</p><p></p><p>The system is such a mess. We quit foster care after a few years. It needs an overhaul. Sad for those who need it. Just being able to give birth doesnt make anyone a fit parent.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 740109, member: 1550"] They want to preserve families here too but what is a family. DNA? Nonsense. A toddler was removed and put into care. He wore a body cast. His drug addicted mother had smashed him into a wall and broken almost every bone in his two year old body. He went to a loving family who nursed him to health and he called them Mom and Dad. They wanted to adopt him alhough he had many challenges due to the birthmothers abuse and substance abuse during pregnancy. The boy was four now, comfortable and safe and loved. Family was told they couldnt adopt him because his birthmoher was rehabilitated now. So he went back. A few months later he was back in care. Birthmother decided she didnt want him. So did they give him back to the family who had cared for and loved him? No. He went to a new family who had never met him. By now he was becoming a big behavior problem from all that had happened to him and to being swapped family to family. The new family kept him a year then said they didnt want him anymore. Only then did he go back to his real family, the one who had nursed him and had wanted to adopt him. He was a mess by now but I heard they adopted him. The system is such a mess. We quit foster care after a few years. It needs an overhaul. Sad for those who need it. Just being able to give birth doesnt make anyone a fit parent. [/QUOTE]
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