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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 481868" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Yes, - it will be a lot of work. But it is worth it. Think in terms of rebuilding a healthy attachment... look for things to share together that you BOTH like to do, or at least things that SHE likes and you don't mind... and these are NOT contingent on behavior. They are "just because".</p><p></p><p>I know some families where the Mom took each kid on a "date" every other week (one kid plus Mom)... ice cream cone at DQ or whatever. NOT a movie... somewhere, where it is possible to actually TALK. (If you have 4+ kids, then even without any GFGisms, its hard to feel individually important...)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 481868, member: 11791"] Yes, - it will be a lot of work. But it is worth it. Think in terms of rebuilding a healthy attachment... look for things to share together that you BOTH like to do, or at least things that SHE likes and you don't mind... and these are NOT contingent on behavior. They are "just because". I know some families where the Mom took each kid on a "date" every other week (one kid plus Mom)... ice cream cone at DQ or whatever. NOT a movie... somewhere, where it is possible to actually TALK. (If you have 4+ kids, then even without any GFGisms, its hard to feel individually important...) [/QUOTE]
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