We are back from out of the country. 37 year old daughter did ok and took a shower everyday. Yes, an actual shower. Not sure if she did that on her own or if it was because my husband would say, OK it is time for you to get in the shower. My daughter went from her bed to a chair, then laid in the sun on a lounge chair and then back into bed. She did not join us for exercise, just naps, eating and lounging. I picked my battles, the lies were flying and if I called her out on every lie, it would just bring more chaos into the mix. No major blowouts or her going off the wall belligerent..Thank God. Sometimes I catch my daughter looking at me and laughing. It feels mean. I do not like to undress in front of her because it makes me feel bad. Even though she has become fat, I never say anything about it yet she tells me each wrinkle, line or fat deposit I have and laughs about it. I have not let myself go, I am just getting older and doing the best I can with what I have. I think it is just another way to spit venom for her. Nobody wants to be laughed at. As I said before, if this is all I am complaining about things are ok. Not great or good, just ok.