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<blockquote data-quote="Calamity Jane" data-source="post: 557963" data-attributes="member: 13882"><p>RE,</p><p>What a startling dream - I can understand your fright and worry, but at the same time, in the dream, you were actually doing something that had a positive effect - you were wiping the goo away and her contortions, screams and fears abated.</p><p>Have you ever prayed to God to make her chaos stop? I only ask because I do that for my brother all the time. In a recent post, you were talking about SO and easy child not exactly thrilled with the idea of your daughter joining you at the holidays. Plus her birthday is coming up, and 40 is a big one. There's a lot of stuff coming up soon, and the dream might be one way of trying to work it all out. In my amateurish dream interpretation, I'm thinking maybe some part of you is acknowledging that she may only find lasting peace after her journey here is over, and your gently cleaning the goo is your way of "wiping the slate clean" so to speak, so she can have permission to move on? All that stuff is coming out of her, and you're frantically wiping it away, and she's comforted. Are you having any second thoughts about the recent boundary settings that you've imparted? It may have something to do with that, perhaps? Whatever it is, I'm sending you gentle, understanding hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Calamity Jane, post: 557963, member: 13882"] RE, What a startling dream - I can understand your fright and worry, but at the same time, in the dream, you were actually doing something that had a positive effect - you were wiping the goo away and her contortions, screams and fears abated. Have you ever prayed to God to make her chaos stop? I only ask because I do that for my brother all the time. In a recent post, you were talking about SO and easy child not exactly thrilled with the idea of your daughter joining you at the holidays. Plus her birthday is coming up, and 40 is a big one. There's a lot of stuff coming up soon, and the dream might be one way of trying to work it all out. In my amateurish dream interpretation, I'm thinking maybe some part of you is acknowledging that she may only find lasting peace after her journey here is over, and your gently cleaning the goo is your way of "wiping the slate clean" so to speak, so she can have permission to move on? All that stuff is coming out of her, and you're frantically wiping it away, and she's comforted. Are you having any second thoughts about the recent boundary settings that you've imparted? It may have something to do with that, perhaps? Whatever it is, I'm sending you gentle, understanding hugs. [/QUOTE]
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