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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 495576"><p>To be honest I am not quite sure of the setup and I am a little unsure of the setup. They do have apartments and they have one for families to use for free when they visit. My difficult child did tell me they signed up for her to vist because she was his "cousin" so maybe it was in the guest apartment. That is my guess.... which may be why my son blames it all on her because in that case it could be concievable that all the booze was hers... however I am pretty darned sure that if she had it that evening and he was with her he was drinking too!!</p><p></p><p>And I do think it is a scale on addiction.... I guess if you are not physically addicted you are not as far along the path than if you are... and as far as drug use, those that are addicted to heroin are further along the path than those who are heavily smoking pot. However in my mind it is the same path and I know my son is moving down that path and I don't really how far along he is.</p><p></p><p>And no Nancy I haven't heard anything. I am trying to keep busy and not think about it too much. I am doing surprisingly ok (guess I have had practice) but when I am alone and driving or in the shower the pain and tears come... so far though I have not broken down into a sobbing puddle. That may happen though. </p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 495576"] To be honest I am not quite sure of the setup and I am a little unsure of the setup. They do have apartments and they have one for families to use for free when they visit. My difficult child did tell me they signed up for her to vist because she was his "cousin" so maybe it was in the guest apartment. That is my guess.... which may be why my son blames it all on her because in that case it could be concievable that all the booze was hers... however I am pretty darned sure that if she had it that evening and he was with her he was drinking too!! And I do think it is a scale on addiction.... I guess if you are not physically addicted you are not as far along the path than if you are... and as far as drug use, those that are addicted to heroin are further along the path than those who are heavily smoking pot. However in my mind it is the same path and I know my son is moving down that path and I don't really how far along he is. And no Nancy I haven't heard anything. I am trying to keep busy and not think about it too much. I am doing surprisingly ok (guess I have had practice) but when I am alone and driving or in the shower the pain and tears come... so far though I have not broken down into a sobbing puddle. That may happen though. TL [/QUOTE]
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