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<blockquote data-quote="Jerri" data-source="post: 195624" data-attributes="member: 383"><p>Thank you Busy,</p><p></p><p>I am trying very hard to be gentle with him, we are scheduled with my Therapist Friday at 9:00 and I am hoping we will get closer to closure.</p><p></p><p>I told him last night I would cancel the surgery until he is ready... if thats what he wants.</p><p></p><p>Some Logistics are in play in that we have a long awaited visit with Stacie, she is active Duty in Hawiia and is coming home on October 6th, and I was hoping to be somewhat on the mend so that I could enjoy her visit.</p><p></p><p>But its critical for me to incorporate his feelings and fears, and respect his input, no matter how contrary it might be to mine.</p><p></p><p>I havent told my Family about the Surgery, as I fear I will "throw him under the bus".. and that is the last thing I want to contend with. *sigh* Families "jump" before thinking when they are scared or worried about a loved one. But I have time... maybe tommorow or Saturday if we can close ranks on what is best for both of us.</p><p></p><p>I keep reminding myself that "I" dont have Cancer... "WE" do.</p><p></p><p>Thanks again,</p><p></p><p>Hugs N Love!!!</p><p></p><p>Jerri</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jerri, post: 195624, member: 383"] Thank you Busy, I am trying very hard to be gentle with him, we are scheduled with my Therapist Friday at 9:00 and I am hoping we will get closer to closure. I told him last night I would cancel the surgery until he is ready... if thats what he wants. Some Logistics are in play in that we have a long awaited visit with Stacie, she is active Duty in Hawiia and is coming home on October 6th, and I was hoping to be somewhat on the mend so that I could enjoy her visit. But its critical for me to incorporate his feelings and fears, and respect his input, no matter how contrary it might be to mine. I havent told my Family about the Surgery, as I fear I will "throw him under the bus".. and that is the last thing I want to contend with. *sigh* Families "jump" before thinking when they are scared or worried about a loved one. But I have time... maybe tommorow or Saturday if we can close ranks on what is best for both of us. I keep reminding myself that "I" dont have Cancer... "WE" do. Thanks again, Hugs N Love!!! Jerri [/QUOTE]
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