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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 479370"><p>Thank you all for your kind words. I cried myself to sleep last night and a getting a cold sore but I am OK this morning.</p><p></p><p>What really bothers me is that he seems to have done this on his own so there is no one else egging him to do this. The sober house thinks this is part of him just being defiant and that is so much his MO. Really he always sabatoges himself that i think this is a sign of his underlying mental health issues.</p><p></p><p>Somehow tonight i have to stay away from lecture mode and just see if i can guide him to share what is going on in his head. That is much easier said than done and is not our usual dynamic.</p><p></p><p>It is absolutely crystal clear that any financial support we give him has to be via someone else. And we will only pay rent to a good sober house and we need to talk to them directly.</p><p></p><p>He is taking such a risk....all the sober house has to do is talk to probation and he could go to jail.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 479370"] Thank you all for your kind words. I cried myself to sleep last night and a getting a cold sore but I am OK this morning. What really bothers me is that he seems to have done this on his own so there is no one else egging him to do this. The sober house thinks this is part of him just being defiant and that is so much his MO. Really he always sabatoges himself that i think this is a sign of his underlying mental health issues. Somehow tonight i have to stay away from lecture mode and just see if i can guide him to share what is going on in his head. That is much easier said than done and is not our usual dynamic. It is absolutely crystal clear that any financial support we give him has to be via someone else. And we will only pay rent to a good sober house and we need to talk to them directly. He is taking such a risk....all the sober house has to do is talk to probation and he could go to jail. TL [/QUOTE]
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