Well we went the the triage today and boy was that a joke. There are so many changes going on over in the department that they don't know if they are coming or going. It all happened so fast it blows my mind. None of us really got to finish a sentence. We did not get to express our concerns about the jpo not giving difficult child timely consequences (heck any for that matter). MST was there and her boss to try to figure out what is the next step because difficult child keeps pushing that he does not want to live with us (because he doesn't want the rules) and so they decided to go ahead a put him in treatment foster care. He has NO idea what that intales. He is going to loose so many privledges. Thay alwasy think the grass is greener on the other side but from what MST has told me he just opened a can of worms. He hasn't been compliant with our rules as you are aware since he ran away like two weeks ago. Keeps saying that the JPO gave him permission (yeah -he calls and leaves a message the the jpo gets them days later and NEVER returns a call to us). They now have stripped away what little authority we had left. MST says it will be a least two weeks before the move but in the mean time what are we supposed to do with him. I am worried about what all that will mean for difficult child but he is worse since he ran away. I dont thing that he understands what he has asked for. MST says that depending on the organization that approves him. It can be up to two weeks before we talk to him once he leaves. There are so many things that he is involved in trying to get caught up and I feel powerless to help him get where he needs to be. On one hand I am freaking out because I know how far he is in credits and if they dont find a home locally they will move him to a differnet school which is going to make him even farther behind-he wanted to do drivers ed , religous activities and gym. On the other hand it would be nice to have a break since the shelter situation didn't give us one and he is getting more agravated. I feel like I just signed my life papers away. He keeps saying he doesn't want to be here and he does not understand what he has really asked for. Becareful what you ask for you just might get it!!!!!!