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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 602083" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Sir, you are really not a very skillful parent and you do have a quick trigger. Not because of what you said to me. I don't care. But you really believe you can be a father figure in such a short period of time and that you have legal rights to the child's care. And you believe in spanking. You'll find most of us don't spank and don't find it a useful way to parent our kids. Certainly it is not mature.</p><p></p><p>You can not make medical decisions for this child. The mother is the one who has to sign for him. Legally you are a stranger. Ask a lawyer (shrug). You'll find out.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Are you even divorced yet? I have a feeling you're not so you can't marry Mom and you aren't anyone's stepparent until you have that honor. Why don't you marry her? Because you're still married maybe?</p><p></p><p>I will ask once more why mother isn't trying to get custody of this child if he is beaten at father's house and you can prove it and then I will wait and see if you answer and will bow out of this discussion. </p><p></p><p>I also think you should leave for everyone's sake. Very unstable for her kids AND your kids (if you care) and for her and you too. Agree with Suzir on everything she said.</p><p></p><p> Ok, nice talking to you. But I'm leaving this thread.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 602083, member: 1550"] Sir, you are really not a very skillful parent and you do have a quick trigger. Not because of what you said to me. I don't care. But you really believe you can be a father figure in such a short period of time and that you have legal rights to the child's care. And you believe in spanking. You'll find most of us don't spank and don't find it a useful way to parent our kids. Certainly it is not mature. You can not make medical decisions for this child. The mother is the one who has to sign for him. Legally you are a stranger. Ask a lawyer (shrug). You'll find out. Are you even divorced yet? I have a feeling you're not so you can't marry Mom and you aren't anyone's stepparent until you have that honor. Why don't you marry her? Because you're still married maybe? I will ask once more why mother isn't trying to get custody of this child if he is beaten at father's house and you can prove it and then I will wait and see if you answer and will bow out of this discussion. I also think you should leave for everyone's sake. Very unstable for her kids AND your kids (if you care) and for her and you too. Agree with Suzir on everything she said. Ok, nice talking to you. But I'm leaving this thread. [/QUOTE]
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