I know how this feels and it feels rotten. It feels if they are feasting on us. At least it did to me.
It was a feeding frenzy by my sister for the years leading up to my mother's death.
My sister anticipated gorging herself upon my mother's death. She could not. But she did give her husband the key to enter my mother's house and raid it. That felt bad, but knowing that we had acted to prevent her raiding the whole estate which she anticipated doing, gave me some peace.
My sister thought we would be co-executors and be jointly designated to make financial and care decisions. My sister is an attorney and I am sure she felt by her legal knowledge and the power of her personality (and my weakness) she would steamroll over me.
My mother changed it to give me sole power. She could not do one thing, because nothing was changed in the will about disbursing assets. I gained not one thing. Her hands were tied. If I tell the truth, I lick my chops at this. The tortoise prevailed.
COPA
