I know not one thing of my moms estate. I would just like for her to have peace these last days of her life. She pinches pennies and is very careful and frugal. She sent me a huge check for Christmas two years back. I called her crying and told her I would put it in the bank for her. She insisted it was for me, but I have kept it for her, in case she needs anything.
I do not like to think badly of my sister, but I think this is her way. It is the manipulating part. The false pretense of being a nice person, but deep down have ulterior motives.
It is confusing and shameful.
I am sorry you went through this Copa.
It is devastating in every way.
Leafy