Here is Nietzsche again, Copa: The love came first. How you see your sister is who you are. We define others by who we are, ourselves. There is no other mirror.
I love it that you see her like this, and I know it rings true for you because it is true of you, Copa. You are kindly, and funny and so bright. But you are honest, too. I think the sister cannot do that, yet.
What I am concerned about is that you posted yesterday about losing weight and cutting your hair, and about your mother. I mentioned it to D H last night.
We are both paying attention.
I meant to find that post and quote it here this morning but I have not done that, yet.
Cedar
