New Leaf. I have been thinking about the yoga pants. Very, very peculiar. And very, very intentional, I think.
I am thinking she is either marking her territory. Or she is communicating. I do not like the way she enters the home *or yard surepticiously, however you spell it. Like she is saying, it is mine. I can do what I please. It feels to be a transgression. At least to me.
First, it is your home, with your husband and son. Not hers, anymore. Second, if she wants to be part of a family, she needs to conduct herself as such. Not steal in and away.
So if I look at it like this the communication she may be sending is: I am here. Like it or not. I can come when I want. F U.
What can you do? Put up an electric fence? Of course not. She has fired the initial salvo. Be prepared, I think.
But perhaps there is a more benign interpretation.
COPA