So this is the benign explanation, New Leaf.
She came to shower and to relax. She knew she could rest here and bathe. There may not have been any mal-intent. She sought a few minutes of refuge and thought not at all about how you would feel. I like this explanation much better.
She did not mean to intrude. Imagine how her life must be. With no place to be truly safe. She is remembering home. And how it feels to be loved and protected by parents.
My son does this, too. This is why he wants to be home. He wants the safety of home. He wants the love. The food. The comfort.
But he does not realize or does not want to face that I feel he transgresses. He dominates. He disregards. He controls. He takes over.
He wants to be a man in my house while seeking what he had as a child.
It does not work that way.
It is no longer the time to want protection and care from your parents...while you insist upon ruling them, or worse, abusing them.
This my son is learning. But still, not enough.
COPA
