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Being who we are, even if FOO is different and doesn't like it
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 672303" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>When I was thinking of whether or not to write her, I thought: She will think I am missing her. She will think of it as a surrender, and that I now realize I was wrong. She will think I am capitulating. She will think of it as an opportunity to humiliate me.</p><p></p><p>If I look at those things that I imagined in her: humiliate, capitulate, lack, surrender, were ideas in me.</p><p></p><p>All of those thoughts in me were giving her <em>the win</em> I believe she needs and has sought over me. My prostration before her. In my own head.</p><p></p><p>And in each and every thought I was doing it to myself.</p><p></p><p>I see now that what she wants does not matter to me one iota. Everything she ever did was about her: Not about me. I do not have to accept it.</p><p></p><p>I am thinking of Cedar's D H here with respect to his own siblings. He could care less their machinations. He does not permit it to touch him. He could care less. Unless it does. I forget the exact words of the Michael Corleone 3. My circle is small. Show me respect. Don't Fxxk me over.</p><p></p><p>I am thinking back these 3 years: I have turned into Michael Corleone.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 672303, member: 18958"] When I was thinking of whether or not to write her, I thought: She will think I am missing her. She will think of it as a surrender, and that I now realize I was wrong. She will think I am capitulating. She will think of it as an opportunity to humiliate me. If I look at those things that I imagined in her: humiliate, capitulate, lack, surrender, were ideas in me. All of those thoughts in me were giving her [I]the win[/I] I believe she needs and has sought over me. My prostration before her. In my own head. And in each and every thought I was doing it to myself. I see now that what she wants does not matter to me one iota. Everything she ever did was about her: Not about me. I do not have to accept it. I am thinking of Cedar's D H here with respect to his own siblings. He could care less their machinations. He does not permit it to touch him. He could care less. Unless it does. I forget the exact words of the Michael Corleone 3. My circle is small. Show me respect. Don't Fxxk me over. I am thinking back these 3 years: I have turned into Michael Corleone. COPA [/QUOTE]
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