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Being who we are, even if FOO is different and doesn't like it
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 672474" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>You are changing the pattern of relationship with your son, Copa. It is going to feel uncomfortable. There is the magical truth that loving one another means flexibility. He will call back. You will feel differently when your back is better.</p><p></p><p>Maybe you will laugh together about his worrying over you.</p><p></p><p>Here is the difference: We are both, you and me too, risking real. This is amazing. We are no longer protecting the little we have left through groveling. We love them too much to love them that way.</p><p></p><p>Good job, Copa.</p><p></p><p>I must be doing a good job too, because I think my son isn't talking to me again.</p><p></p><p>But I know now that he will.</p><p></p><p>I trust now that he loves me.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>I think we are doing well, Copa.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 672474, member: 17461"] You are changing the pattern of relationship with your son, Copa. It is going to feel uncomfortable. There is the magical truth that loving one another means flexibility. He will call back. You will feel differently when your back is better. Maybe you will laugh together about his worrying over you. Here is the difference: We are both, you and me too, risking real. This is amazing. We are no longer protecting the little we have left through groveling. We love them too much to love them that way. Good job, Copa. I must be doing a good job too, because I think my son isn't talking to me again. But I know now that he will. I trust now that he loves me. :O) Cedar I think we are doing well, Copa. [/QUOTE]
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