No one knows what the future will be, not even for ourselves. But, we can try slowly to adjust and change the patterns we created for ourselves.
Maybe that is his sweetness Copa. His thoughts and fears seem very real to him, maybe he wants to protect you.
Perhaps there is a pattern to the calls that has developed over the years.
You see it as dominance, he sees it as caring.
It seems frustrating for both of you.
Next time if you have the urge to call him, maybe you could keep it short and you could say, "I don't have much time to talk, but I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you and I love you. Good bye son.
Yo will feel good that you contacted him, and so will he.
K.I.S.S. Keep It Simple Sweetie.
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