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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 351003" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I had an "OM is he an (insert expletive) talk" with my Mom tonight about my son, my x" and my Mom laid it out cold for me. Not because she is tired of hearing it, but because sometimes it just takes the voice on the phone (so to speak). My Mother can not stand my x. She tolerates her Grandson, but that's about it. His actions, behaviors and antics ad nauseum, my health, the stroke, our depleted bank account and the little things I've let her in on over the years have been enough for a life time for her. Had I ever let her in on it all? I'm sure I would have gotten a tattoo on my head backwards, paid in full by her that said TOIDI so everytime I looked in a mirror I'd remember - NO MORE. That said? She told me tonight - At some point? My x is not to blame. My son is brilliant and smart and knows EXACTLY what he is doing. He thinks about these things he does - he doesn't just wing it. He has a plan and executes it with precision and thought. I am the one that thinks he's flying by the seat of his pants and helps him every time. I'm the gullible one, I'm the one that gets sxcked into this mess, believes him and gets all tied up in knots with his baloney. Him? He's not thinking one iota of how to put $3,000.00 back into our bank account for his probation, jail fines, ridiculous stunts. He's thinking - Sxckers....they bought that. Again and again. Until they didn't. Then it was - Where is my next sxcker? Oh there is another one. No more thought than that was given to you or your bank account being depleted or your agrivation on the matter. None! You on the other hand have stewed, boiled, sat and wanted to 'have it out, discuss things, really level the playing field, intened on telling him how it's going to be, over and over and he'll sit and listen and pretend to be paying attention, and he's not.' Never has - never will. </p><p> </p><p>So my Mom's advice to me after tonights dash of an email from Dude - telling me that he's literally thrown away the last 4 years of his life and mine - with 4 months left to go on a 4 year probation and our $3grand investment in his future? No more calls, no more emails. He gave you his answer - let it be. </p><p> </p><p>I asked Dude why he asked us to be at the bus station at 4:00 AM waiting for him on a work day and didn't show up or have the courtesty to call us when we had to travel over 20 miles to be there? His reply? </p><p> </p><p>No hi mom....no love you....just this - Not coming back -coming to get my dog that's all. </p><p> </p><p>I've got news for him about "his dog" - she's going to a GOOD HOME. He dropped her off here in November and he took off, hasn't sent us a nickle for her care. His dog? My foot. I'm done. Amusement park closed - due to lack of operating funds.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 351003, member: 4964"] I had an "OM is he an (insert expletive) talk" with my Mom tonight about my son, my x" and my Mom laid it out cold for me. Not because she is tired of hearing it, but because sometimes it just takes the voice on the phone (so to speak). My Mother can not stand my x. She tolerates her Grandson, but that's about it. His actions, behaviors and antics ad nauseum, my health, the stroke, our depleted bank account and the little things I've let her in on over the years have been enough for a life time for her. Had I ever let her in on it all? I'm sure I would have gotten a tattoo on my head backwards, paid in full by her that said TOIDI so everytime I looked in a mirror I'd remember - NO MORE. That said? She told me tonight - At some point? My x is not to blame. My son is brilliant and smart and knows EXACTLY what he is doing. He thinks about these things he does - he doesn't just wing it. He has a plan and executes it with precision and thought. I am the one that thinks he's flying by the seat of his pants and helps him every time. I'm the gullible one, I'm the one that gets sxcked into this mess, believes him and gets all tied up in knots with his baloney. Him? He's not thinking one iota of how to put $3,000.00 back into our bank account for his probation, jail fines, ridiculous stunts. He's thinking - Sxckers....they bought that. Again and again. Until they didn't. Then it was - Where is my next sxcker? Oh there is another one. No more thought than that was given to you or your bank account being depleted or your agrivation on the matter. None! You on the other hand have stewed, boiled, sat and wanted to 'have it out, discuss things, really level the playing field, intened on telling him how it's going to be, over and over and he'll sit and listen and pretend to be paying attention, and he's not.' Never has - never will. So my Mom's advice to me after tonights dash of an email from Dude - telling me that he's literally thrown away the last 4 years of his life and mine - with 4 months left to go on a 4 year probation and our $3grand investment in his future? No more calls, no more emails. He gave you his answer - let it be. I asked Dude why he asked us to be at the bus station at 4:00 AM waiting for him on a work day and didn't show up or have the courtesty to call us when we had to travel over 20 miles to be there? His reply? No hi mom....no love you....just this - Not coming back -coming to get my dog that's all. I've got news for him about "his dog" - she's going to a GOOD HOME. He dropped her off here in November and he took off, hasn't sent us a nickle for her care. His dog? My foot. I'm done. Amusement park closed - due to lack of operating funds. [/QUOTE]
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